2018 sex resolutions!

It’s a new year and a perfect time to set new goals. I’ve got some general ones like being more active, eating healthier, and staying on top of things with my bullet journal. But this year I also decided to make some sex-specific resolutions!   1. Make and analyze an orgasm spreadsheet Some other bloggers like Kate and Taryn have written about their sex spreadsheets and it sounds fascinating and insightful. Keeping track of this will appease my inner stats geek, and I’m interested in what I can potentially learn about my habits and preferences. It will also be helpful for […]

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From Secret Sex Geek to Beacon of Permission: How I Learned to Talk about Sex

I’ve pretty much been a sex geek my entire life. But for most of my life, that’s something that I hid from nearly everyone. Sometimes it made me felt ashamed, guilty, and embarrassed. I was raised in a fairly sex-positive home, but the insidious notion that sex is too taboo to talk about crept into my life regardless. When I was in elementary school I really got a kick out of reading books that discussed puberty and sexuality, but I read them when no one was watching. Whenever I went to my friend’s house, I was very excited about secretly sneaking […]

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Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit 2017

Last month I attended the Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit for the second year in a row. It’s an inspiring and exciting event as both a blogger and aspiring sex therapist. So many people and panels to learn from. What makes the conference truly special though is getting to spend time with other bloggers. Together we attended sexy hangouts such as a Fistmas celebration and a spanking party, screamed in an elevator, Skyped our favorite burglar femme, admired Luna’s dildo collection, experienced the Neon Wand, learned the power of Jan, and most importantly laughed together and supported each other.   WEDNESDAY I traveled […]

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Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit 2016

Since I got back from my trip to the Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit a few weeks ago, I’ve been thinking a lot about what to say in my post-conference post. Of course I thought of all the important things I learned and discussed in the sessions, and about spending time with Blog Squad, but I realized the most important thing I took away from it was more like a feeling. And I wasn’t sure how to describe it. But one word kept coming to mind: validation. It was validating to spend time with other like-minded people. It was validating to share and discuss some […]

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Holiday Gift Guide

Well folks, it’s that time of the year: time to make last minute gift purchases! Some of you may be thinking about getting sex toys and such for some special people on your lists, so we put together a gift guide to help you out. Here are some sites we will be linking to and their shipping information and deals: Babeland: Get free 2-day shipping on orders $99+ and click here for shipping deadlines. Get 15% off for subscribing to their newsletter, or 15% off sex toys using code “SUGARPLUM”. Fleshlight: Get free shipping and free gifts on orders $100+. […]

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